Sunan Abi Dawud · (Abwab Un Noam )

باب فِي بِرِّ الْوَالِدَيْنِ

Chapter: Regarding honoring one’s parents.

9 hadith · references 5137–5145

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Abu Dawud · 5137لَا يَجْزِي وَلَدٌ وَالِدَهُ إِلَّا أَنْ يَجِدَهُ مَمْلُوكًا فَيَشْتَرِيَهُ ، فَيُعْتِقَهُAbu Hurairah reported the Messenger of Allah ﷺ as saying: A son does not repay what he owes to his father unless he buys him and emancipates him if he finds him in slavery.5 narratorsAbu Dawud · 5138كَانَتْ تَحْتِي امْرَأَةٌ ، وَكُنْتُ أُحِبُّهَا ، وَكَانَ عُمَرُ يَكْرَهُهَا ، فَقَالَ لِي : طَلِّقْهَا ، فَأَبَيْتُ ، فَأَتَى عُمَرُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَذَكَرَ ذَلِكَ لَهُ ، فَقَالَ النَّبِيNarrated Abdullah ibn Umar: A woman was my wife and I loved her, but Umar hated her. He said to me: Divorce her, but I refused. Umar then went to the Prophet ﷺ and mentioned that to him. The Prophet ﷺ said: Divorce her.6 narratorsAbu Dawud · 5139يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، مَنْ أَبَرُّ ؟ قَالَ : أُمَّكَ ، ثُمَّ أُمَّكَ ، ثُمَّ أُمَّكَ ، ثُمَّ أَبَاكَ ، ثُمَّ الْأَقْرَبَ فَالْأَقْرَبَ ، وَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : لَا يَسْأَلُ رَجُلٌ مَوBahz bin Hakim on his father's authority said that his grandfather said: I said: Messenger of Allah! to whom should I show kindness? He replied: Your mother, next your mother, next your mother, and then comes your father5 narratorsAbu Dawud · 5140يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، مَنْ أَبَرُّ ؟ قَالَ : أُمَّكَ ، وَأَبَاكَ ، وَأُخْتَكَ ، وَأَخَاكَ ، وَمَوْلَاكَ الَّذِي يَلِي ، ذَاكَ حَقٌّ وَاجِبٌ ، وَرَحِمٌ مَوْصُولَةٌKulaib bin Manfa'ah said that his grandfather told then he went to the Prophet ﷺ and said: Messenger of Allah! to whom should I show kindness? He said: Your mother, your sister, your brother and the slave whom you set fr4 narratorsAbu Dawud · 5141إِنَّ مِنْ أَكْبَرِ الْكَبَائِرِ : أَنْ يَلْعَنَ الرَّجُلُ وَالِدَيْهِ , قِيلَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، كَيْفَ يَلْعَنُ الرَّجُلُ وَالِدَيْهِ ؟ قَالَ : يَلْعَنُ أَبَا الرَّجُلِ ، فَيَلْعَنُ أَبَاهُ ، وَيَلْعَنُ أُمَّهُ ، Abdullah bin Amr (bin al-As) reported the Messenger of Allah ﷺ as saying: A man’s reviling of his parents is one of the grave sins. He was asked: Messenger of Allah! How does a man revile his parents? He replied: He revi6 narrators·parallel chainAbu Dawud · 5142يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، هَلْ بَقِيَ مِنْ بِرِّ أَبَوَيَّ شَيْءٌ أَبَرُّهُمَا بِهِ بَعْدَ مَوْتِهِمَا ؟ قَالَ : نَعَمْ ، الصَّلَاةُ عَلَيْهِمَا ، وَالِاسْتِغْفَارُ لَهُمَا ، وَإِنْفَاذُ عَهْدِهِمَا مِنْ بَعْدِهِمَا ، وَصِلَNarrated Abu Usayd Malik ibn Rabiah as-Saeedi: While we were with the Messenger of Allah! ﷺ a man of Banu Salmah came to Him and said: Messenger of Allah is there any kindness left that I can do to my parents after their8 narratorsAbu Dawud · 5143إِنَّ أَبَرَّ الْبِرِّ صِلَةُ الْمَرْءِ أَهْلَ وُدِّ أَبِيهِ بَعْدَ أَنْ يُوَلِّيَIbn Umar reported the Messenger of Allah ﷺ as saying: One of the finest acts of kindness is for a man to treat his father’s friends in a kindly way after he has departed.6 narratorsAbu Dawud · 5144رَأَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقْسِمُ لَحْمًا بِالْجِعِرَّانَةِ ، قَالَ أَبُو الطُّفَيْلِ : وَأَنَا يَوْمَئِذٍ غُلَامٌ أَحْمِلُ عَظْمَ الْجَزُورِ ، إِذْ أَقْبَلَتِ امْرَأَةٌ حَتَّى دَنَتْ إِلَى اNarrated Abut Tufayl: I saw the Prophet ﷺ distributing flesh at Ji'irranah, and I was a boy in those days bearing the bone of the camel, and when a woman who came forward approach the Prophet ﷺ, he spread out his cloak f5 narratorsAbu Dawud · 5145كَانَ جَالِسًا ، فَأَقْبَلَ أَبُوهُ مِنَ الرَّضَاعَةِ فَوَضَعَ لَهُ بَعْضَ ثَوْبِهِ فَقَعَدَ عَلَيْهِ ، ثُمَّ أَقْبَلَتْ أُمُّهُ مِنَ الرَّضَاعَةِ ، فَوَضَعَ لَهَا شِقَّ ثَوْبِهِ مِنْ جَانِبِهِ الْآخَرِ فَجَلَسَتْ عَلَيْNarrated Umar ibn as-Saib: One day when the Messenger of Allah ﷺ was sitting, his foster-father came forward. He spread out of a part of his garment and he sit on it. Then his mother came forward to him and he spread out4 narrators